Many, many years ago way back in the early fifties, possibly earlier (I
would have been too young to remember!); a group of men from various
parishes throughout the Bristol area formed a ‘MEN ONLY’ skittles
league. As time went by Skittles became very popular and most parishes
throughout Bristol had a team.
Churches throughout the area at that time already had a function room
or church hall for social gatherings, Union of Catholic Mothers,
Catholic Women’s League meetings, children’s clubs, and the like. Their
use proved very popular with families who went to Mass on Saturday and
Sunday evenings then took their families into the church hall for tea
and soft drink!
During this time, where possible, skittle alleys were installed in
parish halls with bars for drinks and snacks! This would certainly
bring in revenue for the parishes.
Skittles became a very popular source of recreation. In fact it became
so popular that it was thought, why not have friendly competition
between parishes within the diocese, hence the Mens Catholic Skittles
League was formed. At that time, many Parish Priests also joined their
local team.
As the years went by, it was felt by the wives, sisters and daughters
that perhaps a ladies league could be formed, this was very bold
thinking as this wasn’t really the right thing for ‘refined’ ladies to
do! However, this was now the 1960s, when life styles and outlooks were
rapidly changing and at that time a group of young married mothers
whose husbands always seemed to be out ‘playing skittles’ decided they
would also use their parish club facilities and the Catholic Ladies
Skittles League was formed.
Some of the founder members are still playing skittles – although we do
now have to help some of them onto the alley and hand them the balls! I
believe there could possibly be at least one nurse in each team!
Our teams are made up of grannies, mothers, daughters, granddaughters,
sisters, aunties and friends. It’s a good night out, and we are always
there for each other in cases of hardship, grief and the other more
difficult times of life.
Each year during November we hold a League Mass for deceased members
and this year it was held at St Teresa’s in Filton. The occasion was
well attended by the teams. The Mass was excellent, followed by light
refreshments in the parish hall.
I play for St Augustine’s of Canterbury in Downend, Bristol. We have a
wonderful team, friendly and helpful to each other, also made up of
grannies, mothers, daughters and friends. Most of our members also
belong to other Church organisations, such as flower arrangers,
welcomers, altar sacristans, choir and church cleaners (me!) as well as
nurses who rush out from their night shifts to play.
At the end of each Season, which runs from September to April we have a
men and ladies trophy presentation evening. Over the last few years
this has been held at St Bonaventure’s Social Club in Bishopston where
we have a general get together.
In recent years we have experienced problems in getting a ‘celebrity’
to do the presentations. Retired Bishop Mervyn Alexander, used to play
for the Cathedral team and do the presentations, but when he moved to
Weston-super-Mare he also retired from such an important duty! Nowadays
we either ask a local Parish Priest to hand out the various trophies,
or the Ladies League Officers.
The 2004 to 2005 season has now ended and as always we had our
presentation evening. This was held at St Bonaventure’s Social Club and
as in previous years representatives from all teams attended.
The presentations to the winning teams were given by our dear Father
Frank Bermingham from Holy Cross in Bedminster who did a great job.
Team winners for the ‘All In’ and ‘Front First’ games were St Vincent
Ladies of St Vincent de Paul, Southmead – a superb team, excellent
players and good friends to all the ladies teams.
The runners up were the ladies of Our Lady of Lourdes, Kingswood who
took the shield for the ‘Front Pin’ competition and St Augustine’s
Ladies who took the ‘All In’ runners up shield.
It was a good social occasion, we had a ‘grand draw’ and there were a great variety of prizes.
I have been Chair of the Ladies Skittles League for over 10 years. I
thought now is the time to hand this role over to another lady to do
the honours. Jenny Fitzgerald, Captain of Our Lady of Lourdes team was
unanimously elected by all who attended our recent League AGM. I know
she will do a good job keeping the ladies skittles league going.
I thanked the ladies for my beautiful basket flower arrangement and Marks and Spencer voucher.
I wish all the ladies a great summer break and look forward to meeting them all again next season on the alley!
I’m not sure how long the ladies skittles will survive, its probably
not the ‘in thing’ to do in your spare time these days, but you meet
new friends, raise money for many charities, keep in touch with friends
from other parishes and most of all have an enjoyable evening.
Ladies, if you are looking for somewhere to go
On a dark and miserable night
join your local parish ladies skittles team
the friendship and company will put you right!
Joan Mansfield, Former Chairman of the Clifton Diocese Catholic Ladies Skittles